The Man Makes

The 47 Virtues / Trait 20 of 24

Prudent

Slow is smooth. Smooth is fast. Regret is the only thing that is truly slow.

Prudence is looking before you leap — and sometimes not leaping at all. The fool learns the wall is there by walking into it. The prudent man reads the wall first.

This is not timidity. It is appraisal. Before he acts, the prudent man asks the cheap question now to avoid the expensive consequence later: and then what? He runs the move two steps forward in his mind. He pays a few minutes of thinking to save himself months of regret. From the outside his life looks oddly calm — fewer fires, fewer disasters, fewer apologies — and men mistake that calm for luck. It is not luck. It is the small tax he paid up front while they were busy leaping.

The Stoic source

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations 8.47
If thou art pained by any external thing, it is not this thing that disturbs thee, but thy own judgment about it. And it is in thy power to wipe out this judgment now.

Translated by George Long

The Scripture

Proverbs 14:15, KJV
The simple believeth every word: but the prudent man looketh well to his going.

The move

Before one quick decision, write the second and third effects. Ask "and then what?" twice. Follow the consequence past the first step.